Her writing has been published in Canada, New Zealand, the U.K. and the U.S.A. Share your story! Published by Family Friend Poems February 2018 with permission of the author. Maybe a few of these original poems will give you a giggle youll want to share with your friends. No information is available concerning her who she was or when she died. But it takes a turn towards the end, warning that youth is fleeting and urging us to enjoy every moment while we still can. Yes I can see some advantagesTo this failing memory thing.As long as I can still play golfAnd it doesnt affect my swing. They are autobiographical and speak of the experiences of the poets who wrote them. Here are some prime examples of serious senioritis. Not a crabby old woman; look closer see ME!! Wow! Thank you. (3). Dont think I need your chattering. The bears love to celebrate! That is when the tears fell. And before her final breath, she called on to me by waving her hand to me and she tried to speak to me with a gibberish and weak voice, but somehow, I understood her. As a member of the Old Geezers Club, I pledge to: Be crotchety to everyone I meet,Tell everyone how much harder we had it back in my day,Give the stink eye to anyone with Kool-Aid colored hair,WatchGran Torinoat least once a week,Smell like mentholated oil at all times,Kick kids off my lawn and keep their balls,Never drive over 25 miles per hour, even on the highway,Wear a sweater even if its 90 degrees outside,Remind my son-in-law hes still not good enough for my daughter,Sit on my porch, drink a beer, and judge everyone that passes by,And shake my cane at my smart-mouthed grandkids. When will they learn? Poems can be used as a form Readers Theatre script. Share your story! Just ask anyone who has experienced it and they will tell you that it is one of the hardest and most emotionally charged tasks one can undertake. Were you touched by this poem? Required fields are marked *. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young." -Henry Ford Youve reminded me to pull her book from my shelf to reread. These caregiverexperienceshave prompted many to write poems about elder carerelating to those experiences. My folks are in a nursing home, quarantined in their rooms, and have still somehow managed to contract covis-19 although they are asymptomatic, which is good, they have no way of chatting with the other residents or enjoying any visits, so I hope things are able to get back to normal by the end of the year. Mr Cornelius claims those bottles contained tea, not booze (like they do in the movies). world, is now the author of this simple, yet eloquent, poem traveling the world I was 53, he 54 when the complications of Alzheimer's took him. What's happening to your wondrous mind, That falls upon the earth? Many of the women have become little girls again. Theres a light at theend of the tunnelThats what Ive heard everyone say.And I know Im supposed to go toward it,But Im being waved back the other way. Theres much to be said, especially in tough, unpredictable times, about treating each slow dance as your last. I know I can not talk, Or even joke around. Cut a slim piece of card stock between 2 and 3 inches wide and about 9 inches long. I wholeheartedly agree. 12. I just have to add though, that it saddens me that poetry about care is always reminding people/caregivers/nurses to be nicer. It is an excellent choice for such readings or performances. Memories! But I'm well aware of everything, and also every sound. . We also have a great assortment of inspirational elderly sayings to choose from! Senior citizen poems for church, love poem for seniors. What ever happened to courtesy? The poems we publish via our Unicorn Bay Press imprint are recommended for reading aloud in the category of poems called Spoken Word. know my ways Thier , Mark J. Hume . Remember by Christina Rossetti: This beautiful poem looks back on a life well lived and urges the reader to remember all the good times, even as they get older. P.S. He doesn't show any signs of recognizing me or hearing me. Now that these poems have provided a little inspiration, take a crack at writing some silly senior poetry of your own. One nurse took her copy to I am thinking to hang a framed copy of this poem in every ward to sensitize the staff working there. Sometimes read-aloud activities are lacking in nursing homes and assisted living facilities - however this can easily be changed. I do enjoy Linda Pastans poetry too. Yes, we are thinking when looking at thee Famous poems give residents the opportunity to join in, if they can. This article will share some beautiful poems perfect for elderly loved ones. I love everything about this post. Touched by the poem? This is my walker.There are many like it, but this one is mine.I must cling to it as I walk through the retirement home.My walker, without me, becomes a place to hang my clothes.Without my walker, I will fall down. Our operating costs are covered by advertising, online store sales, participating providers, and senior care partners. Mental Health. The True Meaning Of Life By Every word described my Mums stay in a Care Home.she passed recently. Dont Quit by Edgar Albert Guest: This poem looks at the theme of not giving up, no matter how old you are or what difficulties youre facing. Blessed are they who . I will be 60 on my next birthday and it seems like years fly by like days. If you are looking for free poems for seniors, or funny poems for elderly to share with your loved ones, this website is right for you. 8, 9 In several states, the number of elderly adults is expected to at least triple . 14. Late October by Stanley Kunitz: This poem celebrates the autumn season and all the beauty that comes with it and looks at the inevitability of time passing and things coming to an end. I'm sorry that I messed the bed, I feel like such a baby. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. No one does it like you, Jama. Its a slow dance, led by invisible partners. Entering your contribution is easy to do. The groups are the brainchild of Liverpudlian charity The Reader, which first worked with a care home in 2006.In 2016-17 the organisation ran 514 shared reading groups around the country - 15% . 5. Pretty little high heels, No flowers. The copyright of all poems on this website belong to the individual authors. Published by Family Friend Poems December 2018 with permission of the author. I hope you will enjoy the poems aboutelder care I've selected to share with you. . Although the hands of the elderly may not beSmooth, supple, and unblemished,They have a beauty all their own.Each line, each spot, each scarHas its own tale to tell.Some are tales of tragedy, others are tales of triumph,But they all combine to tell the unique storyOf that treasured persons life.So the next time youre with an elder,Gently take that persons hands within your own,And look with wonder at a life truly lived. I really needed to see that smiling face! Please, only submit poems that you have written. It begins the moment we are born. Why not start a Read-Aloud Readers Group activity at your facility; a Book Club with a . Im grateful to Linda for sharing her poem and about Daisy. Lots of backs. (WDRB) -- Just days ago, images of 80-year-old Carolyn Coulter were shared on social media, showing she had a black eye and other bruises after being in the care of a nursing home in . Daisy is a beacon of hope and light this week. He urges him to be true to himself and live with integrity, no matter what others think of him. Choose happy and eat chocolate Suggested General Messages Wishing you weeks worth of smiles! My heart to you is given, please do give yours to me. I am a map Now she returns with a tightly focused collection that never veers away from its subject matter: the inner-workings of a nursing home. A worker barges in my room, As if it's no big deal. So I think I should try to enjoy it. Senior Devotional Encouragement for the elderly is just a click away with these devotions for seniorswhether you're at home or in a nursing home. Has this poem touched me! John Burningham (Mr Grumpys Outing, 1970). He has worked in Indian Railways for decades till when he retired in 1992. As long as you love me, as long as you care, I will stay by your side be your companion, your friend and guide Valentines Day Messages for Senior Citizens 5). At his prime as an exporter, his secretary fell for him. In any case, I find the stories and memories elderly people share truly delightful. At fifty once more, babies play round my knee, Again we know children, my loved one and me. They enjoy this ritual Great! I will. I too worked as a CNA for 15 plus years and then I choose to do private home health care. Just wanted to let you know that you are loved! When you say in a loud voice, "I do wish you'd try!" Sung to the tune ofThe Sound of Silenceby Simon & Garfunkel. She actually still lives at home alone though two of my sisters live very close and one is a nurse who checks on her daily. The natural order becomes reversed. 11. She would give me money to buy some traditional soft sweets that we could share. these wrinkles are imprints Now that youve reach your golden years,I just want you to know I thank God for you.I will be there for you just likeYouve always been there for me. (16). Her work appears in several literary magazines and anthologies. No hugs. in summers that have been; Those things that meant the most to me My eyes are fine; they are just printing words small. I watch my fake teethSwimming in a glass as theySilently judge me. Let these poems inspire you to reach out to your elders wherever you encounter them. My looks are nothing special, We may seem to be hard when we . A bit late but never mind. That is so lovely, Anna. Glad you liked the poem. Were happy to announce that the lucky person whose name was randomly drawn is: The beautiful and talented Mary Lee Hahn is hosting the Roundup at A Year of Reading. When a Nursing Home Must Be Considered 5. Though Rose has since passed away I think she would be proud to know what a great inspiration knowing her had on my career as a full time writer of Poetry & Prose. Sometimes he loses control over his bladder and wets the bed. Share your story! But inside this old carcass a young girl still dwells, the celebration! Have your grandma recite one of these funny poems for senior citizens, or a poem about elderly in nursing homes. 7. Here are 20 inspirational poems for the elderly to read and enjoy. Who are you calling tipsy? Do NOT submit poems here, instead go to the. And seeing such pictures also helps build empathy and compassion. Purple veins strain against the skin. To do this, CTKG Reese is asking for your help in creating Valentine's Day cards, paper decorations, or drawings to send to local nursing facilities. I press my light to see a face, Or just for company. No hugs. The best poems about old people. Many, many years ago That used to be her mind. When old age arrives, we are often unprepared. Its a reminder that every day is an opportunity to grow and learn something new. I was shocked! The Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All by Allan Gurganus: This poem tells the story of an elderly woman reflecting on her life and all she has seen. I always respected my residents and my private clients and demanded that everyone else did. Thanks for that link love those doorways to the imagination!! It narrates the helplessness of a patient lying in any hospital very truly. Unless otherwise credited, all content copyright 2007-2023 Jama Rattigan. This section is devoted to those elderly who have submitted their lives to someone elses care and were affected enough to write a poemabout it. Oh Jama, youve done it again. but I am waiting to be found, I am a treasure I hope you write more about your grandmothers and great aunts whether in poems or book format great way to preserve their legacy for your grandchildren. If you have written a poem about your caregiving experience, won't you share it with others. My faltering step and shaking hand. Thank you so much for writing this poem. Living Treasures From celebrating life until its end to giving thanks for what time remains, these poems commemorate the elderly in all their glory and remind us that we are never too old to enjoy life. There's stuff I had and did. is 92 and I hope she makes it to her 100th (and beyond!). And forever is losing a stocking or shoe.. Grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers, and mothers My resounding answer was always with dignity, love, and compassion. The fabric so old, like tissue, If you have a poem you've written and would like to share, please submit it in my invitation below. What had been a tedious experience was suddenly a profoundly energizing moment. Maybe one of these poems has touched your heart or even inspired you to write an original poem of your own. Its the last dance, and theyre saving it We learned that the elderly were the most vulnerable, and that many residents as well as caregivers had been lost or were fighting for their lives across the country. The Lesson by Katherine Kay Gallerani: This uplifting poem celebrates all the lessons learned throughout an entire lifetime, including big and small ones and the ones we didnt even know we were learning. A crabby old woman, not very wise, Its a lighthearted look at aging and a reminder that we should always find happiness wherever we can. Dear Angie, Youre the first person Ive met who lived in a nursing home when she was a child you must have some pretty interesting perspectives about caregiving. Is that what you see? Dark days are upon me, my husband is dead; I look at the future, I shudder with dread. Tipsy? All the pretty pictures of the few cared for by families in assisted living or ability to stay at home without much intervention are just that--pictures. Do you believe him? So much loveliness in this post! I replied: ask her what happened in Feb 1952. As I continued to read, I couldn't help it but shed a tear. My grand father is 80 years old. As an aide we are just looked over as if we are a "slave" to their every need. Make sure your happy messages are generic and nonreligious, for example "Warmest wishes" or . Even as the world seems to be moving faster and faster around us, it is vital to take time to reflect on our past and appreciate the present. She reflects on the changes shes witnessed over the years, both good and bad, and urges us to keep fighting for whats right. The old lady's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the JUST KEEP IN MIND AND DON'T FORGET, THAT I'M A PERSON TOO. I'm sorry I may drool, and at times I even stare. The Strongest Girl I Ever Knew By of my journey, HAPPY, HAPPY 100TH BIRTHDAY, DEAR DAISY! by folk whose paths might not have crossed before. The cherished ritual of afternoon tea took on an added poignancy as I thought of those who no longer have the joy of a last dance to look forward to. Every single parent who ends up in a care facility desperately needs a son or daughter who is able to visit. Several other dates also had the same reaction. Signs of wisdom won:Silvered hair, a wrinkled brow,And a peaceful soul. Sorry to hear that they tested positive for the virus, but what a blessing that they are asymptomatic. It is genuinely a beautiful poem depicting the harsh reality of life that many of us don't really know how to handle the unwanted changes that old age brings with it. Skinny fingers clawed in monstrous shapes, And I had just began to grow, Have you seen these lovely old gents? It reminds us to keep going and try our best, even if we fail sometimes. This was a lovely poem, I thought of my husband when I read it, he has been in a vegative state for 10 years and I often wonder whether he knows what's going on around him. 20. Published by Family Friend Poems July 2020 with permission of the author. Though I was sorry to hear Linda and her family wont be able to celebrate this landmark birthday in person, I was so relieved that her mom is okay and would indeed be observing a rare milestone next week. I always tried to make them feel special in every way that I could. Who need me to guide and a secure happy home. distributed to every nurse in the hospital. Visit bentlily for more. Said the little boy, sometimes I drop my spoon. Lenny LiannesABCs of Memory, is a collection of poems containing memories of 20th Century Americana, that will trigger memories in any elderly group. Dawn Mazzola, I Still Matter By In honor of Daisys birthday on Wednesday, weve set up a little afternoon tea. Work Poems When It's Time to Let Go The decision to move an aging loved one into a nursing home may be one of the most difficult you will ever make. They have had sorrow and they have had joy. I really hate to say it,But mymemorys starting to go.Im occasionally forgetting names,And other things I used to know. THE POEM OF A CRABBY OLD MAN! Share your story! My own father died in a care facility. Blessed are they who know my ears today Must strain to hear the things they say. If only I could come to you, I surely will. Happy Birthday, Daisy!! aside without looking at the young soul within We will one day be there, too! Dad was playing cards with a woman and a man. . I Spent 21 years as an CNA. What happens to a person is less significant than what happens within him. The material on this site is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for legal, financial, professional, or medical advice or diagnosis or treatment. 2. at the end of the play, I am the hours I sit beside the fire and think The number of elderly adults (over the age of 65 years) entering nursing homes is expected to increase in the upcoming decades. There is now a stone where I once had a heart. Confronting this reality is the beginning of a healthy relationship to life, aging and death. Everything about this post is precious. I was young and we had a connection but one day I heard the nurses talking about how pathetic she was for wetting her bed and not saying anything so I ran over and stomped on her foot. She died at 102 in 2012. Oh my God! Its a reminder that we should cherish our memories and hold onto them tightly. Makes a world of difference for keeping spirits up. We had one child, our precious son. What are you thinking when you're looking at me? We hope you enjoy it! But it can also be one of the most rewarding and moving experiences that will stay with us for the rest of our lives. Thank you for introducing me to two wonderful poets. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. Please convey my all appreciations to the poet for writing such a meaningful and purposeful poem. I'm A Person Too by Dawn Mazzola - Family Friend Poems. Wonderful! It conveys the message so realistically to all the nursing and other para-medical staff to be compassionate while looking after the patients under their care. Senior Devotional at the end of the play summarizes what I think of my mom. Do you have a poem on the elderly or eldercare that you've written? keeping perfect time with a tick and a tock. Please help yourself to some marble cake, dark chocolate pretzels, lemon, oat, and chocolate chip cookies, and of course, a warm cup of Orange Pekoe. They carry dolls about with them, mostly rag-dolls, I suppose so they can't injure . Poems are great scripts for spoken word performances and the length of the performance can be tailored to the attention span and capabilities of the listeners. And now this little old Scottish lady, with nothing left to give to the Share your story! I have so many old and new memories this post evoked. Remember this poem when you next meet an old person who you might brush I wrote this at Christmas. 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